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Kevin Costner’s Estranged Wife Christine Feels ‘Relieved’ After Moving Out: ‘Hopes There Will Be Less Drama’

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Kevin Costnerstill has love for his estranged wifeChristine.

“It feels so bad,” Kevin continued outside of the courtroom. “We’re talking about somebody I love on the other side. I just can’t.”

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Christine Costner, Kevin Costner

In July, Kevin had been tentatively ordered to make monthly payments of $129,755 to the mother of his three kids — Cayden, 16, Hayes, 14, and Grace, 13.

Earlier this week, Christine, 49, filed a request to increase that amount to $175,057 — a $46,000-plus increase. She reduced that figure to $161,592 during a court hearing on Thursday, following a forensic accountant’s assessment.

“My biggest concern is that the court orders me to pay child support that is above the needs of my children and for the needs of Christine,” Kevin said when he took the stand in court on Friday.

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YELLOWSTONE, Kevin Costner; Christine Baumgartner and Kevin Costner attend the 28th Annual Screen Actors Guild Awards

A day prior, Christine’s attorney John Rydell said that the lifestyle she and Kevin’s three children have grown accustomed to is “in their DNA at this point.”

On the stand, Christine explained how a decrease in financial status would affect their kids. She said in part their children are “very connected to the ocean — it’s their home,” and noted the surf garage is 50 steps from “toes in the water."

“We’ve created quite a community,” she added, repeatedly referring tothe Santa Barbara compound she vacatedas “ours."

The home, as stated in court, includes a volleyball court, a garden, an infinity pool and two guest houses.

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Kevin Costner and wife Christine Baumgartner arrive at the Academy Of Motion Picture Arts And Sciences' Governors Awards

Christine filed for divorce from the Oscar winner in May. The couple was married for 18 years.

At the time of their split, a rep for the actor said in a statement, “It is with great sadness that circumstances beyond his control have transpired which have resulted in Mr. Costner having to participate in a dissolution of marriage action.”

“Christine is trying to keep everything as normal as possible,” the source told PEOPLE in July.

source: people.com